How do you find self-love? You dig. You isolate and you ache from being lonely. You heal. You accept, you look in the mirror and see God. Because the Universe is responding to who you feel you are. Who do you wanna be? It's all up to you. You are the creator. So I wanna be a classy woman with a little bit of hood and lot of Universe inside of me. Here are some hints to love yourself:
1. if it feels wrong - don't do it
2. say exactly what you mean
3. don't be a people pleaser
4. trust your instincts
5. never speak bad about yourself
6. never give up on your dreams
7. don't be afraid to say no
8. don't be afraid to say yes
9. be kind to yourself and forgive yourself
10. let go of what you can't control
11. stay away from drama and negativity
12. love harder
13. love more
14. love unconditionally
15. love yourself
First of all you have to become positive. I mean, really positive. Like you are the energy master of everything and transmute every little negative thought into a positive one. Change your thinking to what you want and shout to the Universe: Life is so easy for me! Life is so good to me! Everything works out brilliantly for me every day! Even if it's not... That's the point. If you focus hard times you have to bring in much compassion and even more forgiveness for yourself. Because you experienced bad times and traumas and negativity. And the only thing that is more powerful than your thoughts is your intention. The Universe is responding to who you feel you are. People will love you. People will hate you. And none of it will have anthing to do with you. Be kind, always. Everyone is fighting a battle you know nothing about.
I mean, literally. Life is too short to worry about what people who exist in a free app in your phone think of you. Care about the real people. The ones who are near you. The ones you care for as much as you do for yourself. Surround yourself with positive vibes. People. Thoughts. Atmosphere. Setting. Vibes. It's all energy. If you put your attention on something or someone you pay with your energy. If something bothers you the only thing you can do is to take away it's only power: the attention. Your thoughts are magnets. Choose only positive thoughts of love, harmony, happiness and abundance, and that is what you can expect to receive in your life. What you put out comes back to you. Be grateful for your blessings.
The Univese is giving you signs everyday in your sleep, on your timeline, in your conversations, on the radio, in the clouds, in epiphanies. Pay attention to them and peace them together. You will notice a pattern. The Univese is constantly communicating with you. Sometimes the people with the greatest potential often take the longest to find their path because their sensitivity is a double edged sword - it lives at the heart of their brilliance, but it also makes them more susceptible to life's pains. Good thing we aren't being penalized for handing in our purpose late. The soul doesn't know a thing about deadlines. It's just you. Don't stress yourself. Because when you are stressed out you don't have enought time to love.
So fucking love more.