There is no such thing as coincidence. That's just what you define for something that happens "randomly".
Everything in this Universe is divine timing. Everything that happens is just in perfect alignment with what has to happen. There is no other way it could happen than exactly the way it does. We just have the present moment. Time is a made up concept. It's a social agreement. We agree that we have days and hours and stuff like that. What for? Why do you need time when your only purpose is to live in the moment?
Detach from needing to have things work out a certain way. The Universe is perfect and there are no failures. Give yourself the gift of detaching from your worries and trust that everything is happening perfectly. Trust. You have to trust. You have to let go. I always have to repeat it to remind you that you need trust. When you accept that everything that comes into your life is especially meant to teach you something - you will succeed. Don't let others fool you. Don't let them control your mind. Don't let their negativity enter your holy mind palace. It all starts up there. And it all starts down at the end of your spine. With the root chakra. As above, so below.
You don't have time. You just have to live. So surround yourself with the dreamers and the doers, the believers and thinkers, but most of all, surround yourself with those who see greatness within you, even when you don't see it yourself. Become the person you want to attract. That's fucking important. Become the person you want to attract. Others are merely mirrors of you. So you cannot hate or love something about another person unless it doesn't reflect you in some way. And sometimes you have to face lonely paths. And that's okay. Enjoy your solitude. There are enough moments where you are surrounded by people. All day. On your way to work. At work. That's the only time I am surrounded by stupidity. When I am at work. Because I have to deal with these unconscious people. And I don't have time to wake them up. They need to look, listen and trust before they are ready to meet me. And I will not fucking come down on your level anymore. Sorry not sorry. You wanna talk to me? Rise up. Rise and shine.
Every situation in life is temporary. So, when life is good, make sure you enjoy and receive it fully. Say thank you and move on. And when life is not so good, remember that it will not last forever and better days are on the way. It's a new season. That's the only reason.
You have to become spiritually solid to overcome the stormy times. It's hard work but it just depends on how hard you treat yourself. Do you enjoy life? Are you laid back happy or do you force your luck to enter your life? Can you relax through retrogrades because you know that the Universe is setting up something greater? Damn yes. I feel so damn blessed. And all the time I feel blessed I just close my eyes for a moment and dive in my breathing. Conscious breathing can make you higher on life than any drug. Trust me - I tried them all. A drug is just borrowed luck. It comes as a gift from a stranger and it leaves like the break up with your beloved one. But to know is to know. Try to know. Try everything out that gives your soul the feeling of being alive. This is when you are in alignment with yourself. And yes, mostly I felt in alignment with myself when I was on drugs. So now I can transmute all that shit into light. I can just take everything that truly serves me from this trip and come back to Earth to work with it. Not to dig in a black hole of loneliness. Loneliness and solitude are worlds apart from another. Try solitude - it helps you help others to help yourself the most.
You have to stop being negative. Stop it now. You have to stop thinking you will be stuck in your situation forever. We feel like our heart will never heal or we will never get out of this impossible struggle. Don't confuse a season for a lifetime. Even your trials have an expiration date. You will grow, life will change, things will work out, you will end up where you wish to be. And therefore you need the help of your higher self and the right people around you. Knowing the difference between who to cut off and who to be patient with - is everything. Patience and gratitude are the keys to every success in life you can imagine.
And another pretty advice: don't let people fool you. Don't let them fuck with you mentally. You have to get so sure in who you are that no one's opinion, rejection or bad behavior can fuck up your vibe. You are the God or the Goddess you want to create. Grow. Shift. Transform. And then everything will be light. Easy. Effortless. Light is the only way to shine through the darkness. Just light.
When all is said and done - you will discover none of it was random.
I cannot teach you anything - I can only make you think.